Two Common Thinking Traps of the Anxious Mind

There are times when our internal dialogue works against us. Sometimes this comes in the form of our core beliefs, but other times it can come from our thinking styles. For someone with anxiety, two common thinking traps tend to have the capacity to influence and reinforce their anxious mind:

• Catastrophising: the tendency to magnify the situation; to blow things out of proportion. This is really the "what if" kind of thinking that can lead someone into a loop of rumination, as they work themselves into worst case scenario thinking. It is the type of thinking style that keeps you very centered on the future, and what you can't control. Very often, what started out as a legitimate worry, becomes so magnified that it takes over the ability to rationalize it.

• Jumping to Conclusions: Very often, we imagine we know what others are thinking and begin to guess at what their actions mean; we become so focused on what it "could mean" that we lose sight of using effective communication, and end up in another all consuming thought loop.

The first step to changing a thinking style is simply to recognize it. Understanding that it has developed as a habit can give us permission to create newer, healthier thinking styles that focus more on the present and on what we know. Allowing our logic to play some role in our thinking will take away some of the power that our emotions have in those moments. With the overall goal of having flexible thought, we can begin to recognize when we are feeling trapped by our thinking and remind ourselves to

"Take a deep breath, focus on the facts, ask for clarification or support."

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